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Who’s Driving Your Bus?

Blackaby started his devotional with a verse I love to read – it just gets me excited about getting in on amazing things: “Call to Me, and I will answer you and tell you great and incomprehensible things you do not know.”  Jeremiah 33:3 Don’t we all want to know God Himself will answer us

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How Do You Know

One of the first pieces of information I am searching for when I am walking with people through a conflict is what values and belief systems are in place for them.  Essentially, I am looking for what is driving how they view and interact with others in the conflict and others in the world around

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Centered

I remember when Rick Warren’s book Purpose Driven Life bounced to popularity.  In 2005, a survey of American pastors and ministers conducted by George Barna asked Christian leaders to identify what books were the most influential on their lives and ministries.  The Purpose Driven Life was the most frequent response.  And The Purpose Driven Church,

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SALT OF THE EARTH

Henry Blackaby says “God’s people are His preserving agents for a world that is corrupted and degenerating because of sin.  Your life is designed and commissioned by God to enhance a community and to preserve what is good and right.”  (from his devotional book) Does that leave you shuddering at your task of being a

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Should You Have Known?

One of the great privileges the Lord has provided me is to serve people as a Christian mediator (sometimes arbitrator and sometimes coach).  I just finished a full day mediation with Godly people who were able to work through difficult “stuff” and come to a reconciling resolution of both substantive and relational conflict issues. I

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Nobody Knows

As a young girl in the late 50’s, I loved playing the organ at my grandmother’s house – I was taking piano lessons but there were so many more sounds you could get out of an organ.   And she had tons of sheet music.  Treasure! One of the pieces I remember (and could play

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How’s Your Perfection Coming?

This post was originally published on Jan.30, 2022  and updated on Feb. 2, 2025 OK, remember “The Fonz”?  That’s Fonzie from the TV series “Happy Days”.  Never was there a character that was more perfect (in his own mind).  He was a 1950’s lovable and almost superhuman greaser who provided us so many laughs. I

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Inventory Time

Not long ago, I shared in a blog my journey to becoming a “Family History Enthusiast” and asked if you were one, also.   I started in my early marriage, pre-kids, getting stories and family history from my husband’s grandmother – she even gave me a journal of her father’s in which he noted how much

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Are You in the Battle

In one of my small groups, we have a member who was diagnosed with a cancer that is terribly ominous and which has taken her for short stints out-of-country and for 5 months away from home in treatment in another state.  Hard stuff affecting every function of her body and with a terrible prognosis. Thankfully,

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Will They Find It?

First things first – have you written (or recorded) it yet? What’s the “it”?   Your faith story.  How did you come to know the Lord, accept the Lord as your Savior, and what are the details around that? Oh, I hear you – you’ve “told” them (the family, close friends, someone).  OK, you have

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I'm Candy.

A lawyer by trade, and a Sherpa by choice; I draw upon my professional experience and combine valuable insight from others to help you REVITALIZE YOUR LIFE story.