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Why Forgive?

I heard it often in the middle of conflict casework – “Why should I forgive them – after what they have done?’ Good question to discuss – because it reveals a huge hurdle to people being reconciled to God (which is primary in the whole process) and then to others.  It is where people get

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“You Shall Not Covet…” – What’s That About?

As I am more actively involved in Christian mediation work again, and also presently walking alongside some folks struggling with conflict, I put myself into “refresher” mode on some of the basics. One of the best resources in my library is Paul Tripp’s “Instruments in the Redeemer’s Hands” which has the subtitle:  People in Need

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Do We Get Second Chances?

One of my favorite “second chance” stories is that of Ben Carson.  Yes, the soft-spoken, calm demeanor, unflappable adult who recently served in public office but is primarily known as the director of pediatric neurosurgery at Johns Hopkins.  One of the youngest doctors in the U.S. to earn such a title, he gained renown in

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WOUNDS OF A FRIEND

These words just don’t seem to go together – but actually they often NEED to go together. Surprising, isn’t it?  When you think of being a friend, it comes to mind easily to think of being comforting and gentle.   But it often shows up in a Christian mediation process that we need to address this

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The Power of Words

Throughout the years of doing Christian mediations and coaching people in conflict, I have been amazed at the power of the words often at the core of the struggle and hurt.   So when I heard Tim Keller’s podcast on the power of words, I loved how he handled the whole topic. I can only give

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Should I OVERLOOK this offense?

Peacemakers are people who breathe grace, inspired by the gospel – isn’t that what we all desire to be and do?  Of course, “life situations” and “frustrations” jump in to attack us bringing us to wonder if we can truly be “at peace” with each other. There are 3 ways to personally and privately (just

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Uncle George, Trust and a Truck

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 Great scripture, easy to read and understand, but how does it really work in our daily lives? As we view our national picture right now, our health situation, the impact on our lives and livelihoods —

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039 PAIRING: Plug Energy Leaks & Imbed Good Habits

Hi, Candy McCune here. Almost everyone around me these days feels they have too much to handle and not enough time. Our work no longer has clear boundaries, and it seems to never end. I love David Allen’s book “Getting Things Done”. He points out that the relative speed of changes in our cultures, lifestyles

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033 How Do I Get Myself to do What I Want?

I want to share a gift with you that I believe will be of real and ongoing value.  It is especially helpful at the time of year when people make year-end resolutions.   But in fact, it is valuable at any time. It was extremely helpful to me (and it was mid-year when I got

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Meet Candy

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I'm Candy.

A lawyer by trade, and a Sherpa by choice; I draw upon my professional experience and combine valuable insight from others to help you REVITALIZE YOUR LIFE story.